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Threshold Transformations

a Holy Lament blog

A sacred space for heartfelt reflections from our community members journeying through the Landscape of Loss

Another kind of no disobedience Sep 18, 2024

Another kind of no


Throwing away my watch
my smartphone
the metronome that pendulates
my life into a tick...

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Curiosity's Gifts grace Sep 04, 2024

My son Kevin passed a year ago, 51/2 years after my wife of 52 years died. I joined David Kessler's grief...

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A Mother's Grief outrage Aug 23, 2024

A MOTHER’S GRIEF
(written Sunday, 10 July 2016)

Who’s there to hear the tears
Of a lost mother
...

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LET MY LOVE BE HEARD outrage Aug 22, 2024

LET MY LOVE BE HEARD

Here is the song of this phoenix,
 the melody embodied in every feather of her...

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Graveyard of Yesterdays shattering Aug 21, 2024

Graveyard of Yesterdays

I can never again be who I was,
crawling back to yesterday
yesterday is dead.
I die
...

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It is only in the quiet that I can hear. solitude Jul 30, 2024

It is only in the quiet that I can hear. 


It is only in the quiet that I can hear.
If I open the...

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Dissolution disillusionment Jul 30, 2024

Dissolution: the act or process of separating into parts or ending something.


How do I separate the...

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After The Divine Meltdown: I am no longer enamored by beliefs… disillusionment Jul 30, 2024

After The Divine Meltdown: I am no longer enamored by beliefs…

Here I am awkward and clumsy, like a...

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Reminders Everywhere disillusionment Jul 26, 2024

Reminders Everywhere

I desire music
There is time now, for creative bursts
Touch the keys, sift through...

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Since That Day disillusionment Jul 26, 2024

After 40+ years on a healing path, with dozens of visits to Lama Foundation and around the country...

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Red, Hot Flames shattering Jul 23, 2024

Red, hot flames
The last time I saw you-
     was a mistake;
a picture fastidiously hidden...

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Moon Dancers yearning Jul 15, 2024

I see
there are
no
MOON DANCERS
in this house
in this early morning white-noise light
to dance with me

...

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“Time with others willing to open their stories in collected writings is amazing. It allows sharing without “too much” while we process our own grief and amplify understanding.”

-Mary Louise M.

What is Threshold Transformations: 

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Holy Lament is Wild Heart's ongoing grief community that explores 12 thresholds of grief as spiritual practice on the journey of loss and longing.

Holy Lament members receive weekly writing prompts from Mirabai Starr. Writing as spiritual practice is the alchemical fire that supports our broken-open hearts to be witnessed and held in the process of transformation.

Threshold Transformations is an invitation to Holy Lament members to more widely share glimpses from their journey. 

You are invited to bear witness with a compassionate heart.

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